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The sadness ends.....

12 Apr 2010 6:46PM   Views : 2779 Unique : 968

...or has it just begun?

There are a few folks on the site, who have been aware of the sadness and gloom, which has been hanging over the Tomcat household for the last few weeks.
Others much to their credit, have pitched in with messages/comments of support, without knowing what was actually occuring.
Without attempting to rewrite The Rise and fall of the Roman empire Smile here is a brief outline.

Michaela's (Mrs T) mum was diagonised about two years ago, with what can only be described as a cross between Huntingdons and Motor neurone. Even the specialists were not sure, apart from the fact that there are/were only about six other similar cases in the country.

We have seen a fit active woman,in a short space of her life, go from walking sticks, zimmer frame, wheelchair and stairlift, to the final resort of a hospital bed being installed on the ground floor.
She had been on numerous pain killing drugs for some considerable time (Morphine and the likes), but on the Wednesday before Easter, the disease took hold big time. So much so, that the initial thoughts were that she had had a stroke. The doctors didn't think she would outlast the Easter holiday, but being the fighter she was, she stayed in this world until 9.30am this morning.
She had beeen virtually comatosed for the last week, so one would hope that she had not suffered the intense pain, that had been racking her body for the last few weeks.
Her wish was that she died at home and thanks to the 24/7 devotion of her daughter and also of the District nurses who came several times a day to top up the syringe driver and administer extra painkilling drugs by direct injection, her wish was granted.

Laraine was only 62 years old when she passed away this morning Sad

Many thanks for all of the kind words I have received over the last few weeks.



Mynett 8 142 6 United Kingdom
12 Apr 2010 7:06PM
so so sorry to here the inevitable Adrian

Our thoughts are with you all at this time of sadness. The only consolation is the love and care that you all gave to her and the support you share with such a close family

take care

Chat to you when you feel up to it

Linda n Clff xxx

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Shroomer 9 14 167 England
12 Apr 2010 7:08PM
So sorry to hear your sad news Ade. My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family.
Kindest wishes
12 Apr 2010 7:20PM
Sorry to read about your sad loss Ade, My thoughts go out to you and your family.
Best Wishes
harrattp 9 11 4 England
12 Apr 2010 7:29PM
My wife and I offer you our deepest sympathy on your loss. Rest assured that she is now free of pain and her suffering has ended. This thought helped us both when Gill lost her mum to cancer and her dad to a stroke/heart attack. That last bein more poignent as he was living with us at the time.
Paul & Gill
skewey 10 31 England
12 Apr 2010 8:04PM
Thoughts are with you at this sad time.
Best wishes to you and your family Adrian.
TerryMcK 7 71 2 United Kingdom
12 Apr 2010 9:39PM
Adrian, my thoughts & sympathies are with you & your family on this day of sorrow.
Kind regards,
janty66 9 3 England
12 Apr 2010 9:48PM
Sorry to hear your sad news. Our thoughts are with you and your family . Speak to you soon.
Jan & Andy
Coleslaw 11 13.4k 28 Wales
13 Apr 2010 8:33PM
Very sorry to hear that.
My condolences.
tomcat 11 6.4k 15 United Kingdom
13 Apr 2010 8:43PM
Thankyou all for these kind words.

I have always been a big believer that life goes on and so it shall, but always with memories.

pluckyfilly Plus
10 351 33 United Kingdom
13 Apr 2010 9:31PM
so sad for you and Michaela - mum/in law was very young but at the end of the day, it would seem this lady had no life to speak of and if you can remember (I am sure you do) the good times, take comfort from the fact you did all you could and mum/in law is now at peace - the suffering is no longer.
My thoughts are with you and the family and I offer my deepest sympathies and very best wishes for all you are faced with in the future.
tomcat 11 6.4k 15 United Kingdom
13 Apr 2010 10:12PM
Thankyou Ann
14 Apr 2010 11:27AM
So very sorry to read about this news Adrian, my deepest sympathies to you and your family. K.
jonah794 7 1.7k 11 United Kingdom
14 Apr 2010 4:58PM
Very sorry to read about it - all our wishes go out to your family Sad Perhaps you will see her again in many years to come Smile
tomcat 11 6.4k 15 United Kingdom
14 Apr 2010 9:24PM
Thankyou Kay & Jonah
MrsS 10 4.5k 18 England
9 May 2010 5:54PM
Two years to the day since I lost one of my good friends - just be there for each other, Adrian, and it will get easier

Fran, Paul & Beth
taggart Plus
12 47 13 United States
9 May 2010 6:55PM
After seeing your cryptic message, I checked out your blog--- You are to be commended for giving loving care rght up to the end--- As others have mentioned, things will smooth out as time goes by-- Memories follow!
---sending good thought your way---- Jennnn
bppowell 14 2.2k 2 England
9 May 2010 9:18PM
Sorry to here this Adrian.

Its very hard to deal with situations were you know they will not get better but still they fight on hoping.

At least she is at peace now.


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